You know what my biggest pet peeve in the Human Design industry is? The pressure around the idea that there’s a “correct vs. wrong” way of doing things. Let’s say you didn’t follow your Strategy & Authority, now what?

Well, it’s not the end of the world.

Picture a GPS re-routing whenever we take a ‘wrong’ turn or miss an exit. We’ll still get to where we’re meant to go but through a different route instead. Perhaps a scenic one we didn’t anticipate. We might even end up in a shortcut or stumbling upon a cute little store we didn’t even know we were interested in or finding a new favourite coffee shop that makes the best fruit pastries.

Detours are part of the experience

If there’s anything I can guarantee you is that detours, mistakes, the unexpected…well is usually expected to happen 😉 This is the experience of being alive here. There will be times where we might overextend ourselves as a result of taking an unplanned turn but that’s really it.

Our responsibility isn’t to ensure that every choice we make is the ‘right’ or perfect one—whatever that means because there is no such thing. That’s so much pressure to put on ourselves, it leads to an impossible routine of mental gymnastics. Where no matter what we do, we never land properly because there’s always something to poke, criticize or improve. And then we’re so exhausted we can’t tap into our intuition, our inner guidance. How can we possibly build trust in ourselves if we’ve spent all our time & energy tearing ourselves apart?

What is our role?

Our responsibility is to be our own advocate. To be so grounded and rooted into ourselves that we know how we are and what we need. Self-care isn’t just a privilege it’s a must and it’s also very challenging if we have never had a chance to prioritize and safely put ourselves in the center. While we might not be able to control our external circumstances, we are the ones living in our internal world which relates to the external one: What is your inner narrative like? How do you speak to yourself? What voices are predominant? What triggers you? How do you nourish your body, mind and spirit?

How do you care for yourself like you’re the most precious thing in your life? Because you are. And if this makes you cringe, where is it coming from?

What’s meant for you, will never miss you

You’re not going to deviate from your life purpose or ef everything up just by not following your S&A, you might be swept into an unexpected adventure with a few lessons and challenges that might help you get clarity and know what you don’t what or what’s no align. There might even be moments of joy if you dare to look.

What’s meant for you, will always find you. Every opportunity is an opening, a portal.

We’re here to take the road of less resistance but sometimes life has a funny way of nudging us into detours, into what’s underneath our resistance to inform, to challenge and to initiate us into new heights; to close patterns by repeating them X amount of times.

Maybe you made a mistake, now what?

So you didn’t follow you S&A or made a mistake. How can you centre yourself now? Alignment happens through the micro-choices we make from noticing our own inner narratives, reactions, to the actions we make.

When we spend less time beating ourselves up for ‘doing it wrong’ we have more space + energy to engage with the present while being fully present.

And what a relief that is! To be able to spend less time spiralling and more time in rooted in our wholeness. Are you ready to deepen your connection to self, tap into your personal power, work with your shadows while deconditioning with ease as you nourish your gifts? To break free from the cycle of burnout, bitterness, frustration, anger and disappointment…so you can finally feel more empowered, aligned and nourished as you create a life that supports YOU?

Are you ready to go from:

• Exhausted, trying to do everything overwhelming yourself…to finally understanding and working within your energetic capacity while feeling energized and nurturing your gifts with ease?
• From constantly second guessing yourself, feeling inadequate, boxed in by other’s expectations and pressure…to sensitizing to your definition, your authority’s voice and building trust in your decision making process?
• Feeling disconnected from your body’s cues, numb to your inner guidance…to having tools to recognize conditioning, move through your blocks and have practices to self-regulate?

I’ve seen first hand how this system can change lives for the better and I want this for you too, because the world desperately needs your voice, your expression and gifts.

• Imagine unlocking and embodying your version of success where you get to honor your cycles and your guidance is recognized while aligned invitations come flowing in.
• Imagine starting your days with excitement, spending time doing what you love and ending your evenings with satisfaction and pleasure where you’re fully nourished.
• Imagine having the time & space to create with ease and truly basking in periods of rest while feeling at peace and letting yourself be supported.
• Imagine being able to lean into your openness and adaptability, releasing the pressure to perform and allowing curiosity & surprise to make it’s way to you.

If you’re resonating and feeling the pull, I would love to invite you to Human Design Fundamentals. This isn’t just a space to learn human design but a container to support your process, wherever you are right now:

In the middle of a career, relationship and/or environment transition? Recovering from burnout? A solopreneur finding their place building their practice? Craving for community + deeper connections? Or simply because you want to feel better?

While you will learn a lot, my focus is to offer you a different perspective using Human Design, mindset work, somatic practices to help quiet the noise while guiding you back to your inner power and expression.

My perspective

Look, if you’ve found me after reading countless HD blogs and books, you might find my approach a tad different than others.*

Here’s what I deeply believe in:

• We can’t reject ourselves into wholeness. We can’t shame ourselves into alignment. I believe our not-self, shadow expressions are very much us. Not parts to be rejected.
• We need to bring our bodies along for the ride. Learning about HD is not enough. How do you hold, process, redirect energy when necessary? How do you sync mind & body?
• Deconditioning is not about just being in the high expressions of our energies. It’s about facing our shadows, removing shame and expanding our capacity to hold + process.

*Can you believed I was terrified and I even tried to be subtle about this in the past, which was ironic because the clients that came to me, approached me because of precisely that!

Don’t miss this round of live calls support, starting March 13th, 2025. Find out more here.